When you're engaged and your sister is single, feelings of being 'behind' in life can surface. It's a delicate situation that requires empathy rather than comparison.
“The key is to validate her feelings without making her feel like a project,” says relationship expert Dr. Karen Khurana. “Acknowledge her emotions, but don't try to solve them.”
Instead of offering platitudes like 'your time will come,' focus on your shared bond as sisters. Ask about her life and interests, and celebrate her achievements outside of relationships. Avoid oversharing wedding details unless she asks, and never apologize for your happiness—just be mindful of how you present it.
Remember, her feeling 'behind' is about her own timeline, not a reflection of your success. A simple, 'I hear you, and I love you,' can be more powerful than any advice.