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Ray J Claims He's Been With 12,500 Women: 'I Can Only F--k a Thousand More'

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April 29, 2026 · 1:09 PM

Singer Ray J has made a staggering claim about his sexual history, saying he has slept with 12,500 women in his lifetime — but is ready to slow down.

In a recent episode of the Funky Friday podcast hosted by Cam Newton, the 45-year-old R&B star said the number has climbed to 12,500, up from an earlier claim of 10,000. When Newton expressed doubt, noting that would mean "sleeping with a little over one-and-a-half women a day for 30 years," Ray J defended his math.

"The math is different because when we're on tour, we're thinking five to 10 a day," he explained, adding that around 3,500 of those encounters involved three or more partners at once. "I'm not capping."

Ray J, who rose to fame with hits like "Sexy Can I" and for a 2003 sex tape with Kim Kardashian, revealed he celebrated hitting the five-digit milestone with a party at the Booby Trap club. "I had about 400 or 500 girls that I f--ked with came through, supported. It was a massive parade," he said.

However, after a recent hospitalization for pneumonia and lingering health issues, the singer is calling it quits. "I can only f--k a thousand more b---hes. I can't do anymore," he quipped.

Despite his extensive history, Ray J said his estranged wife Princess Love — mother of his two children — remains unmatched. "Nobody compares to her. She's a great mom. She has my kids. She deserves it," he said.