In a recent discussion, authors Ruth Whippman and Frederick Joseph tackle the complex state of masculinity in a post-#MeToo world, examining the conflicting narratives that young men face today.
Whippman, author of "Boymom," describes a landscape where young men are caught between a caricatured "tough guy" ideal and a progressive "shut up" narrative that dismisses their struggles. Joseph, author of "Patriarchy Blues," emphasizes that patriarchy harms everyone, and dismantling it is not charity but work toward personal wholeness.
Both argue for moving beyond "positive masculinity" frameworks, advocating instead for a vision of full humanity that frees men from restrictive gender stereotypes. The conversation underscores the need for a feminism that includes men as allies, rather than adversaries.
"This is actually the work of self," Joseph says, urging a shift from seeing patriarchy as a system that benefits men to one that limits them.
The dialogue offers a much-needed, nuanced perspective on fostering a healthier, more inclusive understanding of masculinity.