It's no secret that many of us are glued to our phones, and inconsiderate public phone use has become all too common. But when bad habits collide with live performances, tensions can boil over. Recently, actress Rosamund Pike called out a texter mid-show at London's West End, sparking a debate on proper phone etiquette.
So, what are the rules? Myka Meier, author of Modern Etiquette Made Easy, advises: "Always think about other people before yourself when using your phone." This includes being mindful of how disabled individuals may rely on their phones. As one academic with hearing loss pointed out, outright bans on phones in theaters could inadvertently exclude people who need hearing aid apps.
Here are 11 essential rules for navigating phone use without causing offense:
- Avoid midnight texts unless you know the recipient is awake.
- Don't use speakerphone in public without warning others nearby.
- Voice notes should be short and to the point; don't send rambling monologues.
- Never scroll during a conversation or while someone is speaking to you.
- Silence your phone during performances, meetings, and meals.
- If you must take a call, step away from the group.
- Respect no-phone zones like theaters and libraries.
- Think before you share – not everyone wants their photo posted.
- When using hearing aid apps, adjust settings discreetly if in a quiet setting.
- For unexpected calls, text first to ask if it's a good time.
- Put your phone face down to avoid distraction.
Remember, good etiquette is about respect. As Meier says, "It's always thinking about others first."