Summer brings a relaxation of social norms, but that doesn't mean all rules go out the window. Here is a comprehensive guide to navigating the season with grace.
What to Wear
When is it OK for men to go shirtless? Only by the beach or pool. A shirtless stroll through a seaside town might seem stylish abroad in hot weather, but it's generally not appropriate elsewhere.
When and where is it OK to be wrapped in a towel? Only near water—beach, pool, or a short walk from your accommodation. Never go shopping in a towel or swimsuit.
Are shorts at work acceptable? Depends on company culture. In casual workplaces, tailored shorts may be fine, but avoid them in traditional offices.
What about bare shoulders? Again, context matters. In creative fields it might be acceptable, but in finance or law, it's too casual. Keep other areas covered if you show shoulders.
Are sandals in the office acceptable? Not in professional environments. If you wear them, choose smart styles and ensure your feet are well-groomed.
Do men still need to remove hats indoors? Traditionally yes, but some find this outdated. When in doubt, follow the setting's formality.
When should I take off my sunglasses? Take them off when greeting someone you don't know well to establish eye contact. Indoors, remove them unless necessary for vision.
Can flip-flops be worn away from the beach or pool? Generally no, as they look too casual. Opt for nicer sandals instead.
Is garden or balcony nudity acceptable? Not if visible to neighbors. Only if you have complete privacy.
On Bodily Needs
Is it OK to pee in the sea? No. Use a lavatory.
Is deodorant compulsory? Absolutely necessary for hygiene and respect.
Should I tell someone they smell? Yes, privately and kindly. Suggest it at the end of the day to avoid embarrassment.
Can I refuse a hug or handshake due to sweat? Yes. Politely decline and offer a high five instead.
Can I borrow sunscreen from a stranger? Only if you've established a brief rapport.